When I was 30, I had the opportunity to visit my parents in South Africa, and I encountered a mountain-top experience that left a lasting imprint on my heart. Standing before the majestic Drakensberg mountains, I was enveloped by the joy of a breathtaking view, with flowering trees adding vibrant splashes of color to the landscape, creating a sense of harmony that brought a deep sense of peace.
Now, living in Ecuador, I experience that same sense of wonder daily as I gaze upon the Andes mountains. The clouds gracefully hug the lush greenery, painting a picture of tranquility and beauty. Yet, there is something precious missing from this enchanting scene: the trees that once graced these hillsides have been removed for cattle grazing. The loss of these trees serves as a poignant reminder of the intricate ecosystem that has been disrupted.
While the rains nurture the grasses that now blanket the land, they also ignite a precarious cycle where these grasses become the fuel for increasingly severe dry season fires. Each year, these fires threaten to engulf the landscape, intensifying and wreaking havoc, robbing the land and its inhabitants of their vitality. This cycle has a ripple effect, impacting not only the environment but the livelihood and emotional well-being of all who call this land home.
The mountain-top moments I once sought in South Africa are now tinged with a bittersweet awareness of what has been lost. As I reflect on the importance of trees in fostering biodiversity, stabilizing soil, and providing shelter, I am reminded that the joy of nature is intricately linked to our responsibility to protect it. The health of our environment influences the emotional landscape of humanity; when the land suffers, so do we.
Just as each flowering tree is a testament to life’s interconnectedness—drawing energy from the sun and nourishment from the soil—each of us plays a role in preserving the balance of this ecosystem. The joy radiating from nature invites us to share in its celebration, teaching us that life’s beauty is most profound when nurtured together.
This joy is not merely individual; it extends to all living things. The vibrant chorus of the flowering trees, the hum of life beneath the soil, and the majesty of the mountains all resonate within me, urging us to harmonize our existence with nature.
In acknowledging the loss of trees and their vital role in supporting life, we cultivate a deeper appreciation for our surroundings. Trees are the lungs of the earth, filtering the air we breathe and promoting a sense of well-being that echoes through every creature. Their absence highlights the importance of stewardship; we must strive to protect the environments we cherish, ensuring that future generations can experience the same awe I felt atop the South African mountains—and continue to feel here in Ecuador.


We must also recognize that joy and grief can coexist within us, just like the delicate balance of ecosystems. While the fires threaten the verdant embrace of the Andes, we can respond by nurturing moments of beauty and resilience in our lives, much like the tender plants that push through the ashes after a fire.
As we engage with the soil, fostering compassion for all life, we create a thriving environment that nourishes both our hearts and our planet. By embracing the interconnected web of life that flows from the soil to the trees, to the mountains, and ultimately to ourselves, we can cultivate a legacy of joy and preservation, ensuring that the landscapes we love will flourish for generations to come.
Every flower that blooms shares its joy with the world, becoming a celebration of life itself. This joy reflects the vibrant connections that exist within the soil—the life teeming beneath our feet. The soil is a rich tapestry of existence, home to countless microbes, fungi, and plant roots, all collaborating harmoniously. Each microbe has its role, contributing to the health and vitality of the ecosystem.
In a society that often prioritizes conformity and productivity, embodying this joy becomes an act of radical resistance. Nature invites us to share in this celebration as we witness the exuberance of life displayed in flowers.
I continue to stand enchanted by nature, my heart swells with a silent understanding: “We are all part of this interconnected web. The earth hums through every blossom, a song of celebration and beauty. Let us join in this dance, honoring the joys of all beings and the lifetimes they encompass.”
The flowers teach us that joy isn’t just an individual experience; it radiates and ripples through life, becoming contagious. Joy weaves through our pains, intertwining to strengthen the fabric of our existence. It serves as a fundamental thread, binding our lives together, while the worries and griefs serve as the weft, weaving in and out of our daily narratives. Joy, collected over time, fuels resilience—ensuring we’ll have reservoirs of emotional strength when hard things do happen.
The flowers—collectively—remind us of the importance of cultivating everyday joy, especially in turbulent times. When life feels chaotic and unpredictable, it becomes vital to seek out moments of beauty and wonder. Each time we pause to draw in a deep breath and appreciate the natural world around us, we create space for joy to flourish.
The joy I experienced among those blossoming trees was exceptional, a reminder of how boundless joy can be when we lift the limitations we impose on ourselves. Yet it’s the everyday joys—a dandelion pushing through asphalt, the crocus breaking through melting snow, laughter shared with friends and family—that create the resilient fabric of our lives. These small moments call us to keep our hearts open to the continual return of new life.
However, various forces can conspire to keep us from our joy or convince us that it must be postponed. In our achievement-oriented society, the belief that we must earn our joy can leave us feeling unworthy. We might even fear that embracing joy invites equal portions of pain into our lives, constantly awaiting an impending disaster. For those in grief, guilt may arise when they allow themselves to feel joy. Sometimes, joy asks us to soften our hearts even when we don’t feel safe. In response, we may raise our joy ceilings, fearing the vastness of unearned happiness.
The most damaging fallacy we encounter is the notion that we cannot feel joy in tandem with sadness, anger, or grief. Our culture tends to compartmentalize emotions, dividing them into categories of good and bad, black and white. Yet nature reminds us that the fabric of life operates on a both/and principle. Flowers bloom even amidst destruction, forging new ecosystems as they adapt. Joy serves as a necessary component in composting our grief; our emotions exist in a garden—a complex system in which numerous feelings support and nurture each other. Embracing the joy offered by flowers never negates our suffering or the suffering of those around us.
Finding joy is critical for navigating our ever-changing, chaotic world. When we open our hearts to joy, we expand our vision, discovering doorways we never knew existed. Cultivating joy is a radical act and an inherent birthright. The flowers stand ready to share their ancient wisdom, guiding us in our quest to claim this joy.
So how do we authentically connect with the flowers and trees and cultivate joy? Reconnecting to the reverence and devotion for flowers—and all of nature—that our ancestors once held is a vital step toward restoring balance in our lives and our planet. The beautiful news is that this journey is accessible to everyone. By embracing the interconnectedness of soil, microbes, plants, trees, and humanity, we can nourish both ourselves and the world around us, fostering a garden of joy that flourishes for generations to come.